This is my strategy.

“Hope is not a strategy.” My roommate posts inspirational quotes in her room. When I first read it I didn’t know what to think, because hope is great. It was the last thing out of the box, and hope is what keeps so many people going. Hope also used to National MS Society’s slogan, but they dropped it a couple of years back. That’s why that quote hit me.

The more I thought about it, the more it made sense. Hope isn’t a strategy, and that’s what I realized at Charlie’s funeral. While I have always hoped for a cure and I still hope for a cure, hope alone is not enough. I needed to do something, and Going for Ten Thousand is my strategy.

I never imagined it would be this big. When I started this project in my dorm room I had one goal, to raise $10,000 for MS research. I wanted to do it for my mom and for Charlie. Today, it’s become so much larger than one goal. It’s become about fighting for the 10,000 people in Wisconsin fighting MS.

After the 8 Hour Challenge, we received a lot of attention on campus. It amazes me every time someone approaches me knowing what GF10k is and knowing my story. One of my friends sings on the UW MadHatters, an all male a cappella on group that’s seriously talented and seriously popular. In March, he asked me one of the coolest questions I’ve ever been asked.

Can the MadHatters do something for Going for Ten Thousand? Yes, yes you can.

The UW MadHatters

In April, the UW MadHatters are donating one-third of music sales to GF10k. That includes Itunes sales and physical CDs. I was at their spring concert last night, and it was amazing. Also, they dropped a surprise announcement. They’re donating $1 from every ticket of last night’s sold out show. That’s $1,800. I cried.

As I’ve gotten to know a handful of the Hatters better over the last couple of weeks, I’ve realized what an amazing group of guys they are. They love singing, and they’re truly committed to giving back to the community.

Support the ‘Hatters and donate to GF10k. Buy music and spread the word.

Much love,

BECKY

Yesterday was amazing.

In July, Going for Ten Thousand won a Pepsi Refresh grant. Yesterday, the Refresh team gave us a new challenge. They picked seven projects from across the nation and gave us eight hours to generate as much new attention to our project as possible. They let us go from there. The project with the most attention will win $1,000. We went with Facebook.

At 9:15 am, the page “Pepsi Refresh 8 Hour Challenge- Going for Ten Thousand” went live. We wanted as many likes as possible. In eight hours, 6,557 people “liked” the page. That’s 14 people per minute and one person every 4.5 seconds. We got support from Marquette, Yale, Harvard, UCLA, and schools from across the country. We broke into Spain, England, Norway, and Australia.

It was a huge success. Thank you all. Some highlights from the day..

All day, I was in and out of lecture halls. I wanted to talk to as many people as possible. The third lecture I talked in was the first time I really nailed it. When I finished, the room went nuts. Normally they clap. This time, there was cheering and yelling. We broke 1,000 shortly after that lecture.

Around noon, a story went up on the Wisconsin homepage. UW- Communications wrote the story earlier this semester but was waiting to time the release with our next event. I passed along word of the 8 hour challenge, and they said they would release the story yesterday. I didn’t know it was going on the front page. I didn’t even know it was there until I started getting texts from my friends. That was the first time I cried yesterday. Check out the story here.

In the morning, I e-mailed Lori Berquam, the Dean of Students at UW-Madison. I shared my story and asked her to help spread the word. She responded to my e-mail that afternoon. “I’m on it.” She also “liked” the page and posted on the wall. I cried for the second time when I saw that. Later, I talked with Paula Donner, the CEO of the Wisconsin Alumni Association. Paula has a close friend with MS. She joined the fight.

We ended the day at the Nitty Gritty restaurant on campus. For the last five minutes, we kept hitting refresh. We were getting hundreds more “likes” each minute. When 5:15 hit, I couldn’t stop crying I was so happy. A film crew followed me around for the course of the day, and the producer was trying to get me to tell the  camera the final tally, but I couldn’t pull myself together. Instead I said, “I just want my mom.” I turned around, and she walked in with my family. I knew she was coming, but I didn’t know when. It was perfect.

Last night, the Nitty Gritty hosted a fundraiser. They donated 20% of sales from 5-9 pm. They staffed their restaurant as if it were a football game day, and it was necessary. The restaurant was packed. We made $1,200.

Thank you to everyone that liked the page, shared the link, and joined the fight yesterday.

People are asking how we did in comparison to the other six projects, but we don’t know yet. The Refresh team kept us in the dark.  I don’t know who the other grant winners are or what they chose to do, but everyone will be done by late next week.

Regardless, Thursday was an amazing success, and there is nothing that could make me feel otherwise.

I’m able to do everything I do, because I have amazing people in my life. I couldn’t imagine better friends or family. Thank you to all of you. I really can not say that enough.

Much love,

BECKY

PEPSI REFRESH 8 HOUR CHALLENGE!

In July, we won a $5,000 Pepsi Refresh grant. Today, the Refresh team has given GF10k eight hours to generate as much attention about the project as possible. We need “likes” on a new fan page.  We’re competing against six other projects from around the nation for $1000.

At 9:15 am the page “Pepsi Refresh 8 Hour Challenge- Going for Ten Thousand” went live. “Like” it here. After you like it, post it as your status. We have until 5:15 pm tonight. I’m going for 10,000 likes. Go big or go home, right?

LIKE IT. SHARE IT. JOIN THE FIGHT.

Much love,

BECKY

Check this out.

Going for Ten Thousand is getting bigger.

Spread the word and join the fight my friends. (:

Check the Facebook event here.

Much love,

BECKY

Valentine’s Day- CARNATION SALE.

Check it out. Going for Ten Thousand and the Wisconsin Alumni Student Board are teaming up for a Valentine’s Day Carnation Sale in the Southeast dorms of UW-Madison.

Facebook it and spread it.

Also, check out Going for Ten Thousand- UW-Madison’s new Fan Page. Do you want to receive e-mail notifications? Send an e-mail to join-goingfortenthousand@lists.wisc.edu.

Join the fight my friends!

Love always,

BECKY

I’m going to reflect.

I started Going for Ten Thousand a year ago, and it’s been a seriously crazy 12 months. I started this, because it’s how I cope. This gave me a way to fight. I wanted to raise $10,000 for my mom and for Charlie. With help from an amazing number of people, I raised $22,807. I’m still trying to understand how we got there. 2010 was a good year.

1. Bucky joined the fight.

The fundraising night at the Nitty Gritty was the first  event Going for Ten Thousand had on campus, and it was a crazy success. For hours, there was a line halfway down the stairs of people waiting to be seated. The top floor is normally closed on week nights, and we packed the place. Nearly 300 people joined the fight, and we raised $1,000. Even Bucky Badger made an appearance. That night was great.

2. Last May, a professor personally kicked me out of a 400-person lecture I was never enrolled in.

I marketed the Pepsi Refresh Project by going to lecture halls, sharing my story in the beginning of class, and handing out simple directions. I spoke in my lectures, followed friends to class, and wandered into a couple more. I would ask the professor, receive permission, and give my pitch. With each lecture I gained confidence, and as I spoke to more classes I watched my project’s ranking climb.

Then I walked into Anthropology 104. It was the end of the day on the last day of classes before finals. It was the last class I would speak to, and it was also the largest. The professor arrived, so I jumped on stage to ask permission to speak. I was surprised at the harsh, immediate rejection. I tried to explain myself more, but she wouldn’t budge. It was two minutes before class, and the hall was mostly full. I asked if I could go then, and received a “nod” from the TA standing next to her. I turned and went. The professor immediately tried to get me off stage, but I wasn’t leaving until I finished. She made quite the spectacle and continued to yell while left the room.

As I reached the door, I turned and saw laptops flashed to the Pepsi Refresh website. With a wave, I yelled thanks to the professor. I left the room to applause and laughter.

That night, my project broke the top ten for the first time. It took me two more months to win, but had I not spoken to thousands of students in lecture halls, I would not have gotten that grant. The day I was chased out of a 400 person lecture I was never enrolled in is the highlight of my Badger career thus far.

3. We won a Pepsi Refresh Grant.

The Pepsi Refresh Project was nuts. On occasion, I still meet people that voted, and that’s an amazing experience every time. It’s truly hard to believe how many people spread the word and how big it became. It took three months, but in July we won it. My family and I were on vacation that last night. The contest ended at 11p, and I  sat at the computer for hours that night, hitting refresh over and over. When we finished in the top ten, I cried. My brother and I jumped in a lake. I can’t imagine a better place to be than with my family that night.

When I visit the page, it’s hard not to tear up. “Funded Idea.” That’s the part that gets me.

4. The Arrowhead Girls’ Soccer Program gave Going for Ten Thousand a really big check.

The soccer program was a huge part of my time at Arrowhead, and every year the girls do a community service project. My old soccer coach was one of the first people I called when I started Going for Ten Thousand. I was unbelievably excited when they made it last year’s project. Regardless of how much money they raised, it allowed me to stay connected to a program that meant so much to me.

Then I went to Africa and missed everything. Every time I called home, I asked how things were going, and I kept receiving great news. The night after I landed, the girls had their year-end banquet, and they invited me to attend. When I asked my friends how much they raised, nobody seemed to really know. The coaches kept the final number secret, but estimates were around $3,000-$4,000. I was stoked.

The coaches called me on stage and announced how much money they raised. $8,250. My jaw dropped. With that money, I broke my goal. That night is my favorite memory of 2010.

This has been a truly amazing year. Through this project, I have learned so much about myself. I can’t wait to see what’s next, because it’s only getting bigger.

Thank you all so much. I really can’t say that enough.

Love always,

BECKY

i found this today.

If my life where a poem, it would be this.

“Stubborn Ounces”
(To One Who Doubts the Worth of
Doing Anything If You Can’t Do Everything)
By Bonaro W. Overstreet

You say the Little efforts that I make
will do no good: they never will prevail
to tip the hovering scale
where Justice hangs in balance.

I don’t think I ever thought they would.
But I am prejudiced beyond debate
in favor of my right to choose which side
shall feel the stubborn ounces of my weight.

Love always,

BECKY